To the self acclaimed Real Men and to the others aspiring to be real Men some day::Being able to dedicate yourself to one woman is what makes you a Real man.
We live in a world where males foolishly think that maintaining flings with several women is what defines them as Real men. I remember back in the days back home where the guys in my neighborhood nicknamed a cousin names like Landlord, Champion, Boss..... just because he exchanged women like changing diapers for babies.(IGNORANCE)
What defines a man is his ability to remain faithful, attentive, respectful,supportive and consistent. Take care of his responsibilities, own up to his failures, learn from his mistakes and chase after progress.Have kids? Take care of them.
Their mother? respect her. Even if you two are not together, still respect her and bless her in any little way you can because despite that fact that you two are not together,she still provided you with a blessing in the form of a child.(or you are not aware that the greatest gift a woman can give you is giving you a child?)
Being a man is not about being “ hard “...cold.... angry....evil.. .disrespectful...nasty, those very things that defines a real man are often looked at by Ignorant and immature Men as being too soft and weak but in fact, showing a woman affection, giving her your undivided attention, being able to listen, being able to hold her, touch her in a way that provides reassurance that she’s the only one is one of the best ways to displaying how real of a Man you are.
A real man doesn’t stress his woman, he relieves her of stress.
A Real man doesn’t use his hands to cause his woman pains, he only uses it to give her innermost pleasure.
A real man knows that ONE GOOD WOMAN is more valuable than any
assortment or large number of women.
Today’s definition of a man has become blurred. Men open your eyes because certainly you can DO BETTER.
We live in a world where males foolishly think that maintaining flings with several women is what defines them as Real men. I remember back in the days back home where the guys in my neighborhood nicknamed a cousin names like Landlord, Champion, Boss..... just because he exchanged women like changing diapers for babies.(IGNORANCE)
What defines a man is his ability to remain faithful, attentive, respectful,supportive and consistent. Take care of his responsibilities, own up to his failures, learn from his mistakes and chase after progress.Have kids? Take care of them.
Their mother? respect her. Even if you two are not together, still respect her and bless her in any little way you can because despite that fact that you two are not together,she still provided you with a blessing in the form of a child.(or you are not aware that the greatest gift a woman can give you is giving you a child?)
Being a man is not about being “ hard “...cold.... angry....evil.. .disrespectful...nasty, those very things that defines a real man are often looked at by Ignorant and immature Men as being too soft and weak but in fact, showing a woman affection, giving her your undivided attention, being able to listen, being able to hold her, touch her in a way that provides reassurance that she’s the only one is one of the best ways to displaying how real of a Man you are.
A real man doesn’t stress his woman, he relieves her of stress.
A Real man doesn’t use his hands to cause his woman pains, he only uses it to give her innermost pleasure.
A real man knows that ONE GOOD WOMAN is more valuable than any
assortment or large number of women.
Today’s definition of a man has become blurred. Men open your eyes because certainly you can DO BETTER.
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