Sunday, August 3, 2014

Relationships: To Get A Wife You Must Get A Life! (Advice For Him & Her)

FOR HER:

To get a dream man You must be a dream woman
There's no such thing like a perfect human being 
To be waiting for a perfect partner is to wait for life 
Be very mindful of your age when making your plans 
Raise your standard and not your expectations 
Your standard is your good personality which attracts good men while your expectation is your high expectations which attracts fake men If your expectations are too high
No man will be good enough When no man is good enough you end up waiting for long
When you are tired of waiting You may end up settling for less

In a relationship all men falls into four categories
A boy
A player
A confused man and a real man
What you are looking for will determine what you get if u are being honest and truthful to yourself
To know if he's for real play the time game If he gets you easily He will leave you quickly If you are easy to get you will be easier to forget
Be flexible but be very sensible
Play hard to get but not hard to want
How you present yourself sometimes determines where a man place you
Looking for a real man when you are not real woman is looking looking for a fish in the rain forest
Wise men don't date fake women
The only place you can find a fake woman is temporarily in the heart of a foolish man
But when the fool become wise
The wise person is in serious problem
Avoid too much drama if you want a man
No man wants a shameless woman
A horrible past can affect a spotless future
Don't enjoy the present at the expense of the future You can ask for a man's attention But never demand for his love

Demanding for a man's love is like begging for love
You can never keep what you don't have If he shows you off to everyone at anywhere he is still in love If he hasn't propose he's doing research
If you are too demanding and your expectations are too high he will run away
If he complains always about your pasts he's not ready for you
If he wins your heart with cash he may not stay for long
If you are fake or materialistic he will see no wife in you
If he promise anything in bed Abeg don't believe him (na wash)
If he can't stop talking about his EX get yourself prepared (I no know who ask am)
If he can't find happiness at home He will never be at home
If you nag a lot He will take a walk If you make the first move
He will think you're desperate and cheap If he's not ready you are on holiday
If you are afraid of him you can never be free with him
If you are not free with him it will be hard to get along
If you can't get along don't play along
If he wins your heart with money alone
He may never stay for long If he beat you once he will beat you again If he slaps u n says its a mistake
He can also break your head n say its a mistake
If he doesn't propose after 5yrs (5yrs too much sef!)

He may never propose for life
If he's too possessive life can be a hell
If he's a control freak your confidence and self esteem is at stake
If he start preaching endurance at the initial stage of meeting him Its either he's broke Just lost his job Or just lazy and waiting for luck
If he wakes you up crying in the middle of the night He's about to tell you a story that might break or make your life
Never fall for his height without checking his heart
There's no point in good looking when he's horrible at heart
Where a man is going is far better than where he stands in life
Age has nothing to do with maturity
Growing old and growing up is never the same
Dating older guys doesn't guarantee anything in a relationship There's no age set to be wise or foolish in life
But if he's not wise @40 he might a fool for life
If he is GOD fearing you are good to go...
If He's not meant for YOU he can NEVER be for YOU.....
"Never search for a man without praying to GOD
Never date a guy forever If a relationship is not going to work
Don't be the last person to leave
Whoever is used to freedom will surely hate control
Men love freedom while women love attention
Never deprived a man of his freedom..
Give him his space and never choke him
The reason why many men are afraid of commitment is because they are afraid a woman who is very possessive during courtship or dating Which he thinks can make his life miserable when he finally settle down with her
Marriage is not a career while relationship is not a job
No man wants a liability

It doesn't matter how beautiful you look ,
Do something with your life ...
Marriage doesn't mean your life has to stop
When u rely on a man for everything
Be ready to accept anything he throws at you
Be financially independent
Decision making can be very difficult if your man is your only source of income in life ...
Many women are stuck in miserable situations because they are relying on their man for everything in life.... #strongafricanwoman


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