TEN WRONG REASONS TO GET MARRIED.

1. The desire to have non-stop sex and a sleeping mate.
Do you want to get married because you need sex badly? In many cases,such people marry\get married to people who have no much drive for sex,and they end up with frustrations

2. To save, help or because you pity someone.
Don't ever agree to marry someone simply because you just pity their condition. This kind of marriage will sap the joy of life from you.

3.For money / financial purpose;
you are not in-love with the person but you want to marry the fellow simply because he/she is rich. Think again. Who ever told you that you won't make it in life?

4.The fantasy to wear a wedding gown.[LADIES HOPE YOU ARE LISTENING]

5. In need of someone to do your laundry, house chores and cooking[Men are major culprits on this]

6.THE DESIRE TO BE INDEPENDENT AND FREE FROM YOUR PARENTS
Getting married because you are tired of having your parents monitor or control you is not enough a good reason to get married; your husband's parents or relatives could do worse.

7.TO EASE YOUR LONELINESS
Loneliness is a thing of the mind. Not only singles but married folks too gets lonely at times. No spouse will be with you all round the clock. A miserable single will be a miserable partner in marriage. Marriage doesn't solve the problem of loneliness. There are countless married folks who are living apart from their spouse due to many reasons e.g Job, career pursuit e.t.c.

8. TO BE HAPPY
You don't have to get married before you live a happy life. Get a life as a single, enjoy life, make God your source of joy. Find a reason to laugh everyday and enjoy every opportunity of laughter life presents to you. Marriage is a vacuum, it will be filled with whatsoever you and your partner bring in to it.

9.JUST GETTING SICK OF BEING CALLED A SINGLE
You don't need a man or woman to complete yourself. You are wonderfully and marvelously created. Single-hood is just a phase of your life, enjoy it, pursue a career, set and achieve goals. One day you would wish you are still a single if you rush into marriage simply because you are tired of being a single.

10. ALL MY FRIENDS ARE MARRIED
Don't rush into marriage because all your friends are married with kids.
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