Tuesday, May 27, 2014

A real man should never feel threatened by the success of his girlfriend, fiancee or wife. Its time for men to redefine what their role in a relationship is. Man is the head of a home.

However society has somehow misconstrued and redefined this role of men solely by their ability to provide bread. But there's a huge difference between bread-winnership and leadership.

A real man provides both. However the absence of bread-winnership does not mean a man should abdicate his leadership role.

In today's society where more and more women are increasingly becoming more empowered socially, economically and politically; its an outmoded way of thinking that any woman's role in a home should be restricted to just culinary or sexual or reproductive roles. We're not in Afghanistan!

If you're ever in a position where your wife or girlfriend earns more than you do, there's really no need to feel threatened or develop a complex. Just keep providing quality leadership, guidance and direction, your season will come. Man shall not live by bread alone.

Celebrate success and the wonderful women in your life!♥

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