Why relationships are fun from the beginning but gets sour with time.

Don't you always wonder why
relationships are fun in the beginning &
then it feels like something isn't there
anymore later on?
It's because someone stopped doing what they did to get you and now that you're theirs, they feel like they don't have to try as hard,they feel like they don't have to do as much.
Before, they used to pay attention to you, text you all the time, reply back quick, be on the phone for hours, have so much to say, always doing this and that for you when you don't even ask them to, be all over you and now, they keep their hands to themselves, they have nothing to
talk about, conversations go sour, not
making you feel like you're wanted by
them  and that's when you guys start
drifting.
If you want your relationship to last
longer, never stop dating each other,
never stop doing the things that made
your partner fall in love with you, be
creative, invest in your relationship,
maintain the communication, be open to
each, be God fearing, trust each other,
always forgive and forget, be patient with
your partner, be faithful, be
understanding, keep your friends and
family out of your relationship,
avoid exposing your relationship
(problems) on social networks, never
stop caring about each other, avoid
listening to rumors, sacrifice for
your relationship. Respect your
partner, be a good listener, be
appreciative and most importantly be the best of friends....

Don't Thirst For Attention....

Look, everybody doesn't deserve you, so stop giving your heart, your body, your mind, to any and everybody.

Just because they tell you the right things doesn't make them the right one. Just because the first date went right doesn't make them wife/husband material. Stop searching for it, and let God bring it to you.

Acting DESPERATE for attention is not attractive. Not respecting yourself for attention is not attractive. Begging to be noticed is not attractive. Insecure people do that. Insecure people want attention, secure people demand respect.

Insecure people brag and show off, secure people are humble. Insecure people PRETEND to be perfect, secure people embrace their flaws. There's beauty in confidence, but confidence isn't about showing off what you got, it's more about being secure in what you lack.

Don't thirst for attention. Remember you don't have to chase what's God sent!

Great advice from Liam Neeson!!

"They say the hardest thing in the world is losing someone you love. Someone you grew old with and watched grow everyday. Someone who showed you how to love. It's the worst thing to ever happen to anyone. My wife died unexpectedly. She brought me so much joy. She was my everything. Those 16 years of being her husband taught me how to love unconditionally. We have to stop and be thankful for our spouses. Because, life is very short. Spend time with your spouses. Treat them well. Because, one day, when you look up from your phone, they won't be there anymore. What I truly learned most of all is, live and love everyday like it's your last. Because, one day, it will be. Take chances and go live life. Tell the ones you love, that you love them everyday. Don't take any moment for granted. Life is worth living.”

LET GO OF THE PAST BUT BE CAREFUL...

If you’re not careful, you can allow past hurtful experiences to hinder you from permitting genuine, loving people in your life.

We all must be cautious with whom we form close bonds with and give our hearts to, but we must also be willing to allow the right people in.

Keep your heart guarded by asking God to show you who is authentic and who is not, who is good for you and who is not, who will treat you well and who will not, who is MEANT for you and who is NOT. Believe me. One way or another, He WILL show you.

Just keep in mind that not everyone is the same. There still are very good people out there.

Remember Your Vision.

Remember the #vison! Even when others don't see it,even when others don't get it and even when you feel like you're not supported.... Stay true to bringing your #dreams and #goals to #reality ..Nothing is out of your reach, but you do need to keep a space that is free of #judgement , #negativity and #draining energy.. It's easy sometimes to loose ourselves in the opinion of others,be mindful that you deserve to flourish in a life of #happiness #joy #abundance .. Be #grounded, be #focused and keep moving #foward ...

#godfirstalways #focused #determination #hardwork #persistence